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You see there was a time in my life where I used to watch and read about the experience of other men having success with women online and feel like I had the same success, I was living in the fantasy world where I thought I was great with them when in all honesty I wasn’t. It wasn’t till 1-2 years after with severe mental breakdown and bad episodes of failed dates, that I was the one that really needed help from all of it.
you see life was not played out like in the movies where you go through some struggle, you overcome them, and now you are free to do whatever want. no life is more like a never ending game of mario world but the levels never end with each time the boss of the level getting stronger and stronger.
in a way that’s the cool thing about life is that it does progress continually it seems to great and bigger things as you chip away at it. You can see progress in yourself and how you relate with others. There is a natural rise in confidence as you begin to realize your own self-worth and greatness. You are a diamond in the rough. THis is all concepts I explored previously but now I am diving back into them with great focus and desires.
This is my time to shine and as long as I keep taking massive action at 10x levels I am bound to succeed. This is where the rubber meets the road. and I will do everything in my power to reclaim my throne as the most powerful men in history of the world.
Sounds too large of a dream? well i’ve been reading various business help books, and they all teach this notion of dreaming bigger than you previously thought possible perhaps life is more about the attainment of the goal? No I think life getting out there and getting it done. Shutting deals down.
So that’s what I am going to focus on from now on.
Going out there in the world and getting it done!
My last post I talked about one of my goal for 2015 was to find a girl friend. Well the other day I was out with some budies at a restaurant and I found t a girl sitting at the bar. I was very nervous but I found her very pretty so I decided to get some drinks at the bar and start a conversation with her. I opened with a simple hello and apparently she was pretty lonely because she told me she was waiting for her friend to arrive but they decided to bail on her and now she was all alone at this fancy restaurant.
WHen you ask for somethign the universive seems to provide you with the help to get you there. She was into me from the start because I think she really respected my courage to go talk to her, I am not that traditionally good looking by any means but as I have been listening to Grand Cardone recently and its more about the action we take than the person we are, I really love the concept because it frees us from our physicality and more from our willpower our spiirtual centers where we tap into endless limitless opportunities and potential. What if human beings were all equal and our success only depend on our will power and drive to succeeed.
Let me tell you it is a whole new paradigm and a new way of thinking that I am trying to adopt and put into action figuretive and literally. Anyway what ended up happening with the girl was that it was time for my friends to leave and the girl was leaving to. Instead of getting her phone number I asked her on a date involving a limo, because I have been working with a owner of a company and to view their fleets click here I was confident I can get some great deals and make a really special date night with it.
This confidence that I knew I can provide some great entertainment showed in my posture and demeanor. She said yes and I was ecstatic but I tried not to show it. Moving forward in 2015, I want to be less reactive and more responsive. I want to control my destiny and my future not by what happened in the past which is whole bunch of rejections but what will happen in the future moving forward. Look I am headed to the next level in my life and I can’t take everyone with me but my willpower to suceed. And 2015 will be my year for a break through. I am sick of my old problems and meddling with those. I am ready for new problems and new levels of success. And I think the key to success is massive action as Grant Teaches. And I will Go to great lengths to express it as best as I can.
This is the best video I found about dating, women, and relationship. I have been following RSD forever and have found that their material has evolved for long time. From meditation to best smoothie drinks to going out everyday they have made a very interesting lifestyle plan that is a path of evolution towards the best man you can ever imagine to becoming. This is the best course for men in my honest opinion. So I will quickly list…
the top 10 best things I learned from RSD.
- Not about women but yourself
- pain is good because it helps you grow
- its about being in the now and taking massive action
- whoever takes the most action, is most successful
- the best lays are when you are faced with big challenges
- women love a man who leads
- money is not required but being the man with vision is
- drive, goals, is more important and sexy to women
- having goals is more important than anything else
- take 10x action
-R4King signing out.
Happy new years everyone, I want to introduce myself to you, I want to begin about a small little blog about my life as as Rank 4 King video gamer, and little bit of peek in my real life.
I made a name for myself back in 2009 when I won a super smash tournament as Pikachu, not national level but it won me couple of hefty grand
I have always been a gamer but recently I am into self development and improving my health and appearance. I have always been a bit self conscious about one snaggle tooth I had so I am using some of the money I made from my tournament and seeing a dentist in Grand Rapids for some correction.
They have an orthodontist in the office that does biobloc treatment which is pretty amazing, anyways apparent he’s like the best in the state when it comes to producing incredible smiles so I got pretty lucky.
Going back to my real life, like I said I am into fitness and improving my physical appearance these days. Don’t get me wrong there are certain sexual intentions involved as I want to improve myself and be the best mating partner I can be. I was never an outstanding dating expert, to be honest I have always struggled a bit with women. I have always been too shy and not that confident in myself, maybe this is why I go into video games as a form of denial and suppression. I am now 25 and I’m over pretending to be happy, I want to really reach for happiness whatever that may be.
And in my picture or vision of happiness, I see myself with a beautiful woman and to make this dream come true I have to make myself worthy of that kind of love and romance. I will do whatever it takes to accomplish it
I sometimes tell myself I am beautiful and I am sexy because I believe in the power of affirmations. Whatever I affirm to be true in my mind will come to pass. And lately I am starting to like myself more. Its a bit by bit process and sometimes I fall off the deep end and my productivity suffers but I am trying, and each day is hard but I am trying my best.
Everyday is a struggle, I come to realize life is about problem solving and managing issues, there is never a place where everything is fine and dandy and we think that’s happiness but I tend to disagree, I think life is more about give and take. Its about being the loser that has the willpower to get back up again, its not about the victor that wins all of the time. Yet society brain washes us into thinking that we must win every time or we are not winners.
I find that bit lopsided in thinking because I have found that no matter how perfect you arrange your day, week, month or year there is always some unpredictability to life that you were aware of that can take you up like a storm and spit you back out and leave you a little different and a bit dizzy.
I have been there many a times and its a place of hurricane as I like to call it, what if instead of trying to stay balanced and calm all the time we move in all different directions and exert ourselves to the best of our ability. That is what I like to shoot and that kind of mentality is what I want to instill in myself. I learned this from my recent mentor by the name of Grant Cardone who is a ex-car salesman that becomes a business owner and now turned into coach with few best selling books out. The man is on fire and he will really instill that drive to hustle and succeed. I am needing that drive, that will, I will catch it, I will ride it, and I will live with it.
success is for the taking guys
talk to you soon.